so here i sit

Im babysitting for my best friend while she takes a foster parenting class. Hayden was sleepign when i left so i left him with daddy. daddy has called me 3 times whining about hayden whining so i have 2 whiny babies at home and nothing i can do about it. Why is it he sees me day in and day out i can cook clean and take care of hayden even on his crabbiest day and donny sees me doing it but doesnt know what to do if hes a little fussy? what would he do if God forbid something happened to me? how would he handle life then? oh well all i know is my son has serious separation anxiety because his father wont watch him even for 5 minutes so i cant leave him with anyone because he screams the whole time. what do i do? all i knw is my husband needs to suck it up and learn how to be daddy.