"friends?"

Why is it that Donny and I always seem to make friends that are in it for themselves? When they need or want something they are up our butts wanting our help. But when it comes to us they sit and complain or just dont bother to even be around until they want something again. I am just so tired of being stepped on constantly by ungrateful pieces of crap. Or if we have a cookout or something they are over and dont even bother to contribute. What are we rich or something? What is going on and what is wrong with people?

For example...Donny has been best friends with one person almost his whole life. He has been there for him no matter what. But if donny wants to do something he just kinda blows him off. I am tired of seeing my husband upset. And when they get mad at each other and Mike blames him for all of it, I am the one how has to deal with the repercussions. But i do it because i love my husband. I am soooooo tired of everything.

Then we have this friend who we kinda have no choice but to hang out with his wife too. And who gets stuck doing it? Me of course because if someone doesnt entertain her she whines and complains the whole time. Oh and im not allowed to have an opinion of her because then im the bad guy. First because shes pregnant and its hormones. Now its because shes a breastfeeding new mom. Well some people shouldnt be moms. Who am I to judge you ask? well when a mother is 19 years old tricked her husband into marrying her by saying she was pregnant then went and got herself pregnant that person is selfish and irresponsible. Then she goes and gets drunk every weekend and still breastfeeds the baby like its nothing. Or feeds a 4 month old doritoes. Im sorry but I think you can agree with me here. She doesnt belong having babies.