my husband is driving me crazy

So he still hasnt found work. The economy sucks ugh. However hes only looking for overnight positions. I have told him over and over again that i dont feel safe when im home alone just me and the baby. But he doesnt care. Hes not even attempting to find a job during the day. I understand hes frustrated but Im frustrated too. Its like he tries to find the best way to not spend time with me and Hayden. Like right now he comes in my room at 7 this morning and says hes doing something to my car for me adn dont come outside till hes done. Well its now 10 and hes still not done. Then i ask him is he really doing something for me or is he just working on the car in general and saying its for me. Of course no answer. Why does he insist on driving me crazy? Everyday hes out doing something to the cars or whatever. Its like hes avoiding me. He could get a job with the border patrol a friend of ours brother is high up in the border patrol and said he would make sure he got hired provided he passes the background check and what not but donny says its too much like the military. Oh my gosh seriously? Come on you sign on at 40,000 for the first year with benefits and everything. His excuse now is the application process takes too long. Well if he applied with the border patrol i would be ok with him having something overnight temporarily till he got hired with the border patrol. But its more important for him to not be owned by the government than to support his family. Im so tired of this crap. What am i supposed to do?